Some of Y’all are actually Out right here Flexing on Tinder with Finger proportions, Discuss | Autostraddle

A few of y’all are actually prior to the game. I am off Tinder for like 24 months because i am cheerfully, monogamously, paired. But from what I bear in mind of Tinder I am not amazed.

I believe very conflicted about big hands/finger size discussion! Because… We have huge fingers! Thus, hooray for me! But in addition I’m trans, and “man hands” has become an insult permanently. There clearly was also a
Seinfeld event about any of it.
To be truthful, I feel like smaller hands might be a decent outcome – a lot more

handy

, knowing why. And you may constantly like, use toys and resources to produce the hands bigger, but not to ensure they are more compact? Or even we simply want whatever you wouldn’t/can’t have.

Following Malic reminded us that
having long fingers really means you’re gay
, if you are AFAB at the least (the “science” is going on AMAB folks), and obviously testosterone from inside the uterus is actually involved, and exactly why would experts want to determine if they’re able to tell we are queer in utero so bad? We have my personal conspiracy theories, but I won’t enter into it here.

Perhaps you have assessed your own thumb length and/or fist perimeter? Can you point out it on dates or perhaps in dating programs? Maybe you’ve dated a huge hand person or a little hand individual and get a story to share about exactly why

needless to say

big/small hands are better?

Write to us during the remarks. And, you know, if you like… you’ll be able to decrease your own stats within too

Abeni:

Ok are y’all truly out here wilding or perhaps is this fake

Dani:

Omg allow this end up being real


Valerie:

!!


Dani:

I would ike to be out right here straight flexin with one of these arachnodactyl hands


Christina:

Oh my godddddddddd

I have not witnessed this but I would personally HAVE RESPECT FOR it basically performed


Shelli:

If this isn’t genuine i’m going to be extremely distressed


Jehan:



Carolyn:

@ me when individuals start doing this with fists


Malic:

I’m simply over right here shamefully recalling all the occasions I’ve mentioned that I have weirdly huge hands on dates.


Vanessa:

Actually those that have large arms USUALLY mention it

It isn’t really even your mistake

We realized it actually was like a biological thing where for those who have big fingers and you’re queer you need to discuss it, your brain like forces that


Riese:

i’ve big hands

simply wanted to discuss it


Bailey:

Let’s be genuine; big is actually subjective! If we’re measuring length we should be calculating thickness


KaeLyn:

We have freakishly tiny hands, which have unique benefits, IMO


Sarah:



Carolyn:

same and whenever somebody on a night out together tells me they’ve not ever been fisted before i am always like CHALLENGE POPULAR

the actual challenge is discovering little adequate nitrile gloves


Shelli:

This is actually the best possible dialogue I’ve had this week

I’ve tiny hands but times have weird/go untamed about my acrylics


Abeni:

okay I becamen’t attending chime in but I suppose my personal fingers are big bc I have never been able to find more than 3 fingers into someone without discomfort? maybe i am merely carrying it out completely wrong though lol. additionally sorry in the event that’s TMI


Reneice:

Omg same


Riese:

I have had comparable struggles!!


Christina:

appearance i’d be lying basically mentioned I really don’t desire to evaluate my personal arms today

according to my mommy whenever I born the doctor said I got extended hands thus I feel like I happened to be predestined for a life of homosexuality


Valerie:

dad states my personal grandma accustomed state I got “piano hands” since they had been long thus same


Malic:

Definitely just what actually my personal grandma says about me!


Reneice:

I have large arms and I posted a picture holding just a little alcohol tasting mug and I’ve never blushed in so far as I performed checking out my DMs that time.


Dani:

#showmeyourhands


Riese:

everybody regularly let me know i had guitar fingers as well valerie! or they would ask basically played baseball. and I also’d be like “i’m in fact really poor at both but I would create a good lesbian” now here i am… a lesbian


Christina:

I found myself…so poor at basketball wow

my height is actually DECEPTIVE


Riese:

exactly how tall will you be!!


Christina:

I am 5’10, which I believe is much like NOT even that high

but my locks does add…a significant amount of height to my entire package


Riese:

hahaha

i’m 5’10 additionally


Christina:

Are you currently 5’10 with long fingers? You just could be a lesbian, and eligible to payment.

Abeni Jones is a trans girl of color singer, educator, creator, and developer staying in the Bay Area, CA.

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